tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86054592294469691522010-04-25T11:34:40.746-07:00Follow along as I prepare for and hopefully survive a reduced-intensity allogeneic transplant from a matched, unrelated donor. 20% it kills me, 20% it cures me, and the other results are about the same as the aSCT I THOUGHT I was going to have last February. Of course, I also write about everything in my life having to do with fighting and living with cancer.Lon Nesselerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05544465172485743313noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8605459229446969152.post-21767824132636495212010-04-20T16:28:00.000-07:002010-04-20T16:28:25.342-07:00

When I first started this blog, the idea was to chronicle my second autologous stem-cell transplant (SCT) for the benefit of those who might find themselves following in my footsteps. Many have decided to keep a diary of the experience but few have actually done it, mostly because they find themselves in too much pain or discomfort. Maybe I won't be able to do it either, but that was the idea. As

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The Google MonsterGoogle has evolved, and so will you, if you know what's good for you! On May 1st we are shutting down the way you blog, even though we sold you on it not too long ago. We made a mistake. Change or die! Grrrrrr! Which about says it all. When I set this blog up, I did it the hard way (a bad habit of mine) and now I'm paying for it. I love complex stuff. Have you seen the new TiVo?

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Cold, But They Warm My HeartOnly four hours after a lengthy and depressing discussion with my case manager (she's the one who finds donors for people like me), I learned that she had taken the search world-wide and others had been asked to join in. I asked myself, just how many miracles can a guy have in one lifetime? Then, the call came four or five hours later ON THE SAME DAY that she had found

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Thursday I learned that my high-quality donor has decided to move on to other challenging opportunities. I am sure they had very good reasons to cut and run in the middle of an evil, moonless, snowy night. Maybe someone showed them my blog! By the way, if any of my readers have a drop of Cherokee in their blood and are otherwise boring (Scots, Irish, and English with a touch of French), as well

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The Gift of Life Somewhere in the world there is a donor who is a very good marrow match for me! Wouldn't you just know that I would have an exceedingly rare type requiring weeks of scouring the data to find any reasonable donors, let alone a good one. Nevertheless, I've kept quiet about this because after you've found a donor there are certain additional things that have to be ascertained before

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After seventeen days in Scripps Green Hospital in La Jolla, I'm home but I don't know for how long. I've advanced to the next stage of the End Game, about which I began writing a long time ago. I don't have enough strength or skill at the moment to adequately explain the second stage of the end game, but, in brief, there comes a time when treating one life-critical problem makes it more

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If you look out my bedroom window a few hundred yards to the west, you will see a big chunk of the Blue Pacific over the heads of the dazzled Torrey Pines golfers. At Scripps Green Hospital, I'd rather have a room overlooking the main parking lot because the Internet signal is so much better on the land side of the hospital than on the water side, but, then, I never claimed to have a balanced set

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The confidence Obama radiated when it came to managing a generational and massive change in health care puzzled me. It was more than confidence, really: somehow fixing health care was such a sure thing he could give Congress all the time it needed to work out the details, none of which seemed essential to him. Occasionally he would make impatient noises, but not loudly enough to bother anyone

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On Tuesday, I needed an long infusion of Igg because after looking at my immunoglobulin panel, it became clear that I have no or few working normal immunoglobulins. I may rewrite this post when able with explanations because this is the 4th day of a 40mg dex pulse and I'm incompetent as hell today as a writer, but for now, accept that the results of the Igg test, not normally used by light

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The most important miracle in my new life, my marriage with Ivonne, I've talked about. The second miracle, the medical miracle I discovered that may yet save my life, I have talked about. What I haven't talked about is the terrifying, confusing, hostile, dangerous process of bringing her to live with me in America. I have written a substantial post on the subject, or at least a crackling-good

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The New Year holiday has never meant much to me. I don't think I've been invited to a cocktail party in thirty years. I don't make resolutions. I do like to watch an exciting, close football game but if the score isn't close I regret wasting my time. I have no favorites except Yale. This year is different. My bizarre brain, which generally does whatever it wants to do, is obsessing on redefining

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A year of data Multi-Drug Resistance. MDR pokes you in the eye from this and older charts. I've tried every drug that's doesn't require being in a clinical trial to get, and failed to obtain at least one that is. In the beginning, when my luck ran high, everything worked quickly and easily. Now, everything works for a short time, then fails. There is very little left I can try. Arsenic. You know

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I'm a scientist. I don't believe in miracles. They are impossible. However, twice this year I have been presented with an event so improbable and yet so undeniable that my logical, analytic brain staggered as if knocked out in a WWE Smackdown. My brain still cannot explain away these, what shall I call them, great, unexpected gifts? (None of my terminology seems to be correct. We like to say

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Highly intelligent people often display a huge gift: the ability to rapidly and distantly free associate, connecting ideas to areas that are so far away that most people can't see the connections unless they are patiently taught. There are other aspects to intelligence, of course, but the ability to free associate over vast mental distances is one of the most obvious to the sensitive onlooker.

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Scientists are extremely opinionated, despite the occasionally-awkward public attempts to appear to be otherwise. By "opinionated," I mean that we passionately believe something to be true despite lacking proof.  But, as scientists, we want to do the arduous work of designing experiments that would confirm or deny our beliefs. (By the way, in my experience, and able to offer no explanation,

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Yeti: 1992–2009 Ivonne summed up Yeti better than I could, in a single sentence: Yeti was all about love. He greeted every visitor, remembered them, had the loudest purr of any cat I've ever known (as a vet tech once said, "He has a good motor"). Visitors who didn't love, or at least tolerate, cats, were not welcome in my house. He could also hug you with his arms, and squeeze your finger

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The squiggly red line, which approximates the number of plasma cells in the body, both normal and malignant, has reached the stratosphere. If we can't stop its rise, it will stop mine. It rose seventy-three points in one week. Malignant plasma cells crowd out what I need to fend off infections. The value should be 1.94 or less. It is now 304. The time has come to make sure that my emergency

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In the eleven years I've been fighting multiple myeloma, having a long-term plan has let me live a relatively normal life. In the beginning, I didn't know what was important, so I studied all aspects of the disease. Back then this kind of study was quite difficult because the Internet was still young — the only way to get a journal article was to xerox it at a medical library. But as time passed

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I, the Registrar, Ivonne, and June Welsh, wife to my Best Man, Lee Three weeks ago today Ivonne and I were married. The shock that followed the escalation of my cherished $50 drive-thru wedding to something closer to one hundred times that costly passed smoothly with the first Margarita at the reception, which I had made part of the contract with my favorite restaurant, Baci Ristorante: the

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Watching Obama struggle with implacable resistance to his health-care initiative has been as exasperating as watching a full-length performance of Hamlet: although it has been obvious since Act I that Hamlet needs to avenge his father, he is hopelessly conflicted will not act! Is Obama willing to fight for the public plan (which should be medicare for all who want it) or not? Will he abandon

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Fifty dollars. That's all a wedding license costs in California. Not only that, for another fifty the County will perform the service on the grounds of its handsome old administration building on San Diego bay. Throw in another ten bucks for a commemorative digital picture and you have every sensitive man's dream: The $110 wedding. California, being California, you can almost do it as a

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Philosophers, because they tell the truth, are often hated. A philosopher will, after hearing me whine about having an incurable, universally-fatal cancer, tell me that there is nothing substantially different about us: we all live under a sentence of death attached to a date uncertain and should all live accordingly.The assertion infuriates me. While being theoretically and logically correct,

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This poem, one of the most misunderstood in the English language, addresses end-of-life issues common to everyone, not just restless ancient heroes nor those of us fighting multiple myeloma. Ulysses is clearly in the End Game. I am presenting it "as is" except for marking some lines to linger over, but later may discuss the poem in detail for what it tells us about reactions to common end-game

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The Wedding SiteA huge part of me is completely absorbed with the wedding and its usual and customary ordeals. We have the license. There are rings. There is a date (Friday, September 4th) and a place (the wedding gazebo/chuppah on the grounds of the 1938 Spanish Revival/Beaux-Arts County Administration Center). Travel plans for old friends. A best man and an usherette. Tequila and mariachis!Yet

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I've recently discovered that it is impossible to schedule a short date for a minimal, sensible wedding because, at some point in the process, fiancées connect to a primitive female communications sub-carrier, which appears to men to consist of slow, deep-in-the-jungle drumbeats, a link that removes the discussion from anything a man is capable of understanding. I suspect all women of all

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